When children grieve : for adults to help children deal with death, divorce, pet loss, moving, and other losses / John W. James and Russell Friedman with Leslie Landon Matthews.
Record details
- ISBN: 0060196130
- ISBN: 9780060196134
- ISBN: 0060084294
- ISBN: 9780060084295
- Physical Description: xix, 268 pages ; 22 cm
- Edition: 1st edition
- Publisher: New York : HarperCollins, [2001]
- Copyright: ©2001
Content descriptions
- Formatted Contents Note:
- Introduction: Put Your Oxygen Mask on First xii -- Part 1 Monkey See, Monkey do 1 -- Chapter 1 What's the Problem and Whose Problem Is It? 5 -- Chapter 2 Looking At Myth 1: Don't Feel Bad! 14 -- Chapter 3 Looking at Myth 2: Replace the Loss, Part One 24 -- Chapter 4 Looking at Myth 3: Grieve Alone 33 -- Chapter 5 Looking at Myth 4: Be Strong 42 -- Chapter 6 Looking at Myth 5: Keep Busy 46 -- Chapter 7 Looking at Myth 6: Time Heals All Wounds 54 -- Part 2 Moving From Grief to Recovery 59 -- Chapter 8 Looking for "The Book" 61 -- Chapter 9 What Is Incomplete Grief? 67 -- Chapter 10 Helping the Helpers 73 -- Chapter 11 Short-Term Energy-Relieving Behaviors (S.T.E.R.B.s) 80 -- Part 3 Path to Completion 89 -- Chapter 12 Relationship Review 91 -- Chapter 13 Real-Life Examples 96 -- Chapter 14 Helping Your Child Review the Relationship 103 -- Chapter 15 Emotional Energy Checklist 107 -- Chapter 16 What to Do with the Review 113 -- Chapter 17 Recovery Components 116 -- Chapter 18 Recovery Components: Forgiveness 121 -- Chapter 19 Recovery Components: Significant Emotional Statements 126 -- Chapter 20 Death of a Person 132 -- Part 4 Moving from Discovery to Completion 145 -- Chapter 21 Continuing Litany vs. Freedom -- Chapter 22 Zeroing In on Completion 151 -- Chapter 23 Delivering, Completing, and Saying Good-bye 160 -- Chapter 24 Very Close to NaNa 169 -- Chapter 25 One More Letter 183 -- Part 5 Other Losses 189 -- Chapter 26 First Big Move 191 -- Chapter 27 What Not to Do 194 -- Chapter 28 On Divorce 199 -- Chapter 29 Bad New--Bad News 202 -- Part 6 Closing up Shop 219 -- Chapter 30 "D" Word 221 -- Chapter 31 Euphemisms + Metaphors = Confusion 230 -- Chapter 32 Four Weddings and a Funeral? 234 -- Chapter 33 Win-Win 240.
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| Location | Call Number / Copy Notes | Barcode | Shelving Location | Status | Due Date |
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| Jacksonville Main Library | 155.9 JAM (Text) | 36015000356895 | Adult Nonfiction | Available | - |
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