Duct tape parenting : a less is more approach to raising respectful, responsible, and resilient kids / Vicki Hoefle.
There's a new set of 3Rs for our kids respect, responsibility, and resilience to better prepare them for life in the real world. Once developed, these skills let kids take charge, and let parents step back, to the benefit of all. Casting hover mothers and helicopter parents aside, Vicki Hoefle encourages a different, counter-intuitive yet much more effective approach: for parents to sit on their hands, stay on the sidelines, even if duct tape is required, so that the kids step up. Duct Tape Parenting gives parents a new perspective on what it means to be effective, engaged parents and to enable kids to develop confidence through solving their own problems. This is not a book about the parenting strategy of the day what the author calls Post-It-Note Parenting but rather a relationship-based guide to span all ages and stages of development. Witty, straight-shooting Hoefle addresses frustrated parents everywhere who are ready to raise confident, capable children to go out in the world.
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- ISBN: 9781937134181
- ISBN: 1937134180
- Physical Description: xxii, 263 pages ; 22 cm
- Publisher: Brookline, MA : Bibliomotion, [2012]
- Copyright: ©2012
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- With Note:
- MARCIVE 9/4/13
- Formatted Contents Note:
- Section I Before We Get the Duct Tape, Let's See What Needs Fixing: Note, It's Not the Kids 1 -- Chapter 1 Feeding the Weed: Your Focus Is the Problem 3 -- Chapter 2 Band-Aids on Bullet Wounds: Your Strategy Is the Problem 25 -- Chapter 3 Being the Maid: Doing for Your Kids Is the Problem 39 -- Chapter 4 Holding onto Discipline: Your Fear Is the Problem 58 -- Chapter 5 Cul-de-Sac Syndrome: Your Thinking Is the Problem 72 -- Section II Get out the Duct Tape and Take a Leap of Faith 83 -- Chapter 6 Duct Tape for the Relationship: Repairing Family Fractures Is a Solution 85 -- Chapter 7 Duct Tape for the Mouth: Keeping Your Mind Open and Your Mouth Closed Is a Solution 107 -- Chapter 8 Duct Tape for Your Body: Quitting Your Job as the Maid Is a Solution 128 -- Chapter 9 Duct Tape for the Eyes and Ears: Ignoring the Drama and Mischief Making Is a Solution 153 -- Chapter 10 Prepare for Departure: Launch with Enthusiasm 173 -- Chapter 11 Duct Tape Works: Stories from Real Kids of Duct Tape Parents 201 -- Chapter 12 Duct Tape Is Good for the Family: A Family That Works Together, Sticks Together 219 -- Chapter 13 Simulating the Real World: Raising the Next Generation of Leaders 229.
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| Location | Call Number / Copy Notes | Barcode | Shelving Location | Status | Due Date |
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| Jacksonville Main Library | 649.1 HOE (Text) | 36015000599981 | Adult Nonfiction | Available | - |
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